feat: make resource detector ordering deterministic

[herin049]

Description

Makes the ordering and merging of resource detector attributes deterministic, with the otel resource detector being last unless explicitly listed in OTEL_EXPERIMENTAL_RESOURCE_DETECTORS.

Fixes #5054

Type of change

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• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• This change requires a documentation update

How Has This Been Tested?

uv run tox -e py314-test-opentelemetry-sdk

Does This PR Require a Contrib Repo Change?

• Yes. - Link to PR:
• No.

Checklist:

• Followed the style guidelines of this project
• Changelogs have been updated
• Unit tests have been added
• Documentation has been updated

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Thanks!